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Good Research on Definition of Lucky and Unlucky. Worth to read and re-read and re-read whenever we feel we are Unlucky...............
Why some people have all the Luck ?
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire.
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapers asking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men & women volunteered for my research & over the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives & had them take part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, their thoughts & behaviour are responsible for much of their good & bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chance opportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due to differences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both lucky and unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it & tell me how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large message halfway through the newspaper saying : "Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $50."
This message took up half of the page & was written in type that was more than two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, but the unlucky people tended to miss it & the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts their ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties'; intent on finding their perfect partner & so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements & miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed & open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. My research eventually revealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating & noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could be used to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a month carrying out exercises designed to help them think & behave like a lucky person. Dramatic results ! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities, listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to bad luck. One month later, the volunteers returned & described what had happened. The results were dramatic : 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives & perhaps most important of all, luckier.
The lucky people had become even luckier & the unlucky had become lucky. Finally, I had found the elusive "luck factor".
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking Ur normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize Urself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.
Have a Lucky day and work for it... "
The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."
" There is a great difference between "worry" & "concern",
A worried person only sees the problem & a concerned person solves the problem..!"
TO BE LUCKY OR UNLUCKY - it is by practice and choice.
Found an amazing article written by Madhurie singh. Madhuri is a parenting and schooling expert from Pune, she writes blogs on parenting and is on the board of many good schools of Pune as a curiculum advisor.
How to inculcate the habit of self study in children!
Many of you want to know how my boys study on their own. So here is a bit though not everything in detail.
1. I had to make up my mind to let go. Since I am a control freak I love to be aware of everything they did. I had to tell myself to let go. Letting go early is v important for their development.
So you need to let go the need to hover in your child’s head all the time.
2. My mom was v happy when she saw my sons studying, eating, playing and fighting on their own. She said a v important thing. “When you were all young, I had no time nor did I know what to teach you all. So I would sit with you all. But that worked well with you as you learnt to study on your own. I see parents who sit and teach 2 to 3 hours daily but the kids are not at all serious.”
So the message is to let your kids study on their own. They will make mistakes and they will falter. It’s ok. Let them do these mistakes when young. The stakes are low. The loss is small. So what they get less marks in class 2 or 5 or 7! Let them realize what is failure early on. They will understand how to do self study. And trust me, in this age of internet, the only reason I am sending my kids to school is because I want them to mingle around with 20 other kids and teachers. Socialize with them . Of course I need peace too. ;).
3. I do not ever ask them what marks they have got. All I ask before assessment is a quick answer to my questions on how will you use this concept in real life. If they know great. Else I give them a bit of Gyan that is enough.
After they come back from tests I don’t ask how much will they get. I ask them this ” So were the questions easy or tough?” If they say it was easy, I know they have understood everything v clearly. If they say it was tough, I know I need to explain it to them as they still have not understood the usage of what ever they learnt and hence it seemed tough to them. It also tells me that I did not explain to them good enough for their smarty heads. So I have to simplify the explanations.
4. I stopped packing their bags when they were in class 3. Their diary notes from teachers would be some thing like this “Mrs Madhurie Singh, your son did not bring his homework book today. Kindly ensure it is there.”
My reply would be this ” Dear teacher, I am teaching him to be responsible. So it is his responsibility to pack all books not mine. Kindly scold him for not getting the book from next time.”
Most teachers have written back this ” Dear Mrs Singh, I appreciate your way of inculcating responsibilities in your son. I will not bother you again for this. Hope more mothers are like you.” And this message is universal!
5. Project work and home assignments are all done by my sons on their own. Initially they would argue with me. ” All my classmates moms help them in their project s and homework. They are neater and look so good. But mine is dirtiest.”
I would tell them the same thing repeatedly till they stopped asking me. “The homework and project work is a way to make you learn and practice what you did in class today. If you do it yourself, you will know how much you understood. If I do it then how will you practice. Do you want to keep on studying the same thing again after today and waste your time? Because if you don’t do your home work and project yourself, you will forget it after today. Then one more day you will have to sit to do it again afresh. That will reduce your playtime.” And I mean what I say.
5. I allow them to mess, waste materials as that is how they learn to use their brains and be creative. I try to teach them in simple conversation about risks, money value, business and importance of being best in whatever they do in life.
Like ask them questions that has nothing to do with their school. E.g. ” I want to hire a Sw Engg, what should I look into that person when I interview him or her?”
Or ” We want to buy a new car, what car should we buy.” The first thing they ask is ” what is your budget?”
My dad wanted to buy toys for them last yr. We all went to Hamleys. My dad asked them ” Boys, what do you want to buy?”
Both asked him ” What is your budget nanaji?” My dad said ” No budget”.
He ended up paying close to 20 thousand for cars, bikes and stationary!
I told my dad. They asked you about the budget, you should have told them the upper limit. And they are v fair.
It's a forward msg just thought of sharing as it's an eye opener☺
Hope it teaches us to treat our kids to BE kids😀
00 Quotes of A P J Abdul Kalam in Hindi (ऐ पी जे अब्दुल कलाम के अनमोल विचार)
ऐ पी जे अब्दुल कलाम
भारत के पूर्व राष्ट्रपति, महान वैज्ञानिक और शिक्षक ऐ पी जे अब्दुल कलाम किसी परिचय के मोहताज़ नहीं है। यह भारत के सबसे पसंदीदा युथ आइकॉन है। इन्होने अपनी मेहनत, लगन और इच्छा शक्ति से अर्श से शिखर तक का सफर तय किया है। इन्होने बहुत सी ऐसी बाते कही है जिन्हे अपने जीवन में अपनाकर कोई कामयाबी के शिखर तक पहुँच सकता है।
यह भी पढ़े- डॉ. कलाम के सिद्धान्त, जिससे सीखा पूरे देश ने
Quote 1 : इससे पहले की सपने सच हो आपको सपने देखने होंगे।
Quote 2 : सपना वो नहीं है जो आप नींद में देखे, सपने वो है जो आपको नींद ही नहीं आने दे।
Quote 3 : इंतज़ार करने वालो को सिर्फ उतना ही मिलता है, जितना कोशिश करने वाले छोड़ देते है।
Quote 4 : एक अच्छी पुस्तक हज़ार दोस्तों के बराबर होती है जबकि एक अच्छा दोस्त एक लाइब्रेरी (पुस्तकालय) के बराबर होता है
Quote 5 : जीवन में कठिनाइयाँ हमे बर्बाद करने नहीं आती है, बल्कि यह हमारी छुपी हुई सामर्थ्य और शक्तियों को बाहर निकलने में हमारी मदद करती है, कठिनाइयों को यह जान लेने दो की आप उससे भी ज्यादा कठिन हो।
Quote 6 : आत्मविश्वास और कड़ी मेहनत, असफलता नामक बिमारी को मारने के लिए सबसे बढ़िया दवाई है। ये आपको एक सफल व्यक्ति बनाती है।
Quote 7 : देश का सबसे अच्छा दिमाग, क्लास रूम की आखरी बेंचो पर मिल सकता है।
Quote 8 : आप अपना भविष्य नहीं बदल सकते पर आप अपनी आदते बदल सकते है और निश्चित रूप से आपकी आदते आपका फ्यूचर बदल देगी।
Quote 9 : अपने जॉब से प्यार करो पर अपनी कम्पनी से प्यार मत करो क्योकि आप नहीं जानते की कब आपकी कम्पनी आपको प्यार करना बंद कर दे।
Quote 10 : अपनी पहली सफलता के बाद विश्राम मत करो क्योकि अगर आप दूसरी बार में असफल हो गए तो बहुत से होंठ यह कहने के इंतज़ार में होंगे की आपकी पहली सफलता केवल एक तुक्का थी।
Quote 11 : किसकी को हराना बहुत आसान है लेकिन किसी को जितना बहुत आसान है।
Quote 12 : यदि आप अपनी ड्यूटी को सैल्यूट करोगे तो आपको किसी भी व्यक्ति को सैल्यूट करने की जरूरत नहीं पड़ेगी लेकिन यदि आप अपनी ड्यूटी को पोल्यूट करेंगे तो आपको हर किसी को सैल्यूट करना पडेगा।
Quote 13 : महान सपने देखने वालो के महान सपने हमेशा पुरे होते है।
Quote 14 : जब हमारे सिग्नेचर (हस्ताक्षर), ऑटोग्राफ में बदल जाए तो यह सफलता की निशानी है।
Quote 15 : सफलता की कहानियां मत पढ़ो उससे आपको केवल एक सन्देश मिलेगा। असफलता की कहानियां पढ़ो उससे आपको सफल होने के कुछ आइडियाज (विचार) मिलेंगे।
Quote 16 : ब्लैक कलर भावनात्मक रूप से बुरा होता है लेकिन हर ब्लैक बोर्ड विधार्थियों की जिंदगी ब्राइट बनाता है।
Quote 17 : शिखर पर पहुँचने के लिए सामर्थ्य चाहिए। फिर वो चाहे माउंट एवेरेस्ट का शिखर हो या आपके केरियर का।
Quote 18 : मैं एक हैंडसम इंसान नहीं हूँ लेकिन मैं अपना हैंड उस किसी भी व्यक्ति को दे सकता हूँ जिसको की मदद की जरूरत है। सुंदरता हृदय में होती है, चेहरे में नहीं।
Quote 19 : नकली सुख की बजाय ठोस उपलब्धियों के पीछे समर्पित रहिये।
Quote 20 : अपने मिशन में कामयाब होने के लिए, आपको अपने लक्ष्य के प्रति एकचित्त निष्ठावान होना पड़ेगा।
Quote 21 : एक मुर्ख जीनियस बन सकता है यदि वो समझता है की वो मुर्ख है लेकिन एक जीनियस मुर्ख बन सकता है यदि वो समझता है की वो जीनियस है।
Quote 22 : बारिश की दौरान सारे पक्षी आश्रय की तलाश करते है लेकिन बाज़ बादलों के ऊपर उडकर बारिश को ही अवॉयड कर देते है। समस्याए कॉमन है, लेकिन आपका एटीट्यूड इनमे डिफरेंस पैदा करता है।
Quote 23 : कभी कभी कक्षा से बंक मारकर दोस्तों के साथ मस्ती करना अच्छा होता है, क्योंकि आज जब मैं पीछे मुड़कर देखता हूँ तो ये सिर्फ हंसाता ही नहीं है, बल्कि अच्छी यादे भी देता है।
Quote 24 : प्रशन पूछना, विधार्थियों की सभी प्रमुख विशेषताओ में से एक है। इसलिए छात्रों सवाल पूछों।
Quote 25 : मेरे लिए नकारात्मक अनुभव जैसी कोई चीज़ नहीं है।
Quote 26 : जिंदगी और समय, विशव के दो सबसे बड़े अध्यापक है। ज़िंदगी हमे समय का सही उपयोग करना सिखाती है जबकि समय हमे ज़िंदगी की उपयोगिता बताता है।
Quote 27 : जब हम दैनिक समस्याओ से घिरे रहते है तो हम उन अच्छी चीज़ों को भूल जाते है जो की हम में है।
Quote 28 : इंसान को कठिनाइयों की आवश्यकता होती है, क्योकि सफलता का आनंद उठाने के लिए ये जरूरी है।
Quote 29 : मैं हमेशा इस बात को स्वीकार करने के लिए तैयार था कि मैं कुछ चीजें नहीं बदल सकता।
Quote 30 : जो लोग आधे अधूरे मन से कोई काम करते है उन्हें आधी अधूरी, खोकली सफलता मिलती है जो चारो और कड़वाहट भर देती है।
Quote 31 : हमे प्रयत्न करना नहीं छोड़ना चाहिए और समस्याओ से नहीं हारना चाहिए।
Quote 32 : मेरा यह सन्देश विशेष रूप से युवाओ के लिए है। उनमे अलग सोच रखने का साहस, नए रास्तो पर चलने का साहस, आविष्कार करने का साहस होना चाहिए। उन्हें समस्याओ से लड़ना और उनसे जीतना आना चाहिए। ये सभी महान गुण है और युवाओ को इन गुणों को अपनाना चाहिए।
Quote 33 : हर सुबह पांच बाते अपने आप से बोलो
१ मैं सबसे अच्छा हूँ।
२ मैं यह कर सकता हूँ।
३ भगवान हमेशा मेरे साथ है।
४ मैं एक विजेता हूँ।
५ आज का दिन मेरा दिन है।
Quote 34 : युवाओ के लिए सन्देश
ज़िंदगी में लक्ष्य तय करना
ज्ञान को प्राप्त करना
कठिन मेहनत करना
अपने लक्ष्य के प्रति दृढ़ रहना
Quote 35 : थ्री एक्सीलेंट आन्सवर
सफलता का रहस्य क्या है ? सही निर्णय
आप सही निर्णय कैसे लेते है ? अनुभव से
आप अनुभव कैसे प्राप्त करते है ? गलत निर्णय से
Quote 36 : आइये हम अपने आज का बलिदान कर दें ताकि हमारे बच्चों का कल बेहतर हो सके।
Quote 37 : कृत्रिम सुख की बजाये ठोस उपलब्धियों के पीछे समर्पित रहिये।
Quote 38 : चूँकि हम सब भगवान के पुत्र है इसलिए हम हर उस चीज़ से बड़े है जो हममे हो सकती है।
Quote 39 : यदि हम सवतंत्र नहीं है तो कोई भी हमारा आदर नहीं करेगा।
Quote 40 : अंग्रेजी आवश्यक है क्योंकि वर्तमान में विज्ञान के मूल काम अंग्रेजी में हैं। मेरा विश्वास है कि अगले दो दशक में विज्ञान के मूल काम हमारी भाषाओँ में आने शुरू हो जायेंगे, तब हम जापानियों की तरह आगे बढ़ सकेंगे।
Quote 41 : जीवन एक कठिन खेल है। आप इस जन्मसिद्ध अधिकार को केवल एक व्यक्ति बनकर ही जीत सकते है।
Quote 42 : मुझे बताइए , यहाँ का मीडिया इतना नकारात्मक क्यों है? भारत में हम अपनी अच्छाइयों, अपनी उपलब्धियों को दर्शाने में इतना शर्मिंदा क्यों होते हैं? हम एक माहान राष्ट्र हैं। हमारे पास ढेरों सफलता की गाथाएँ हैं, लेकिन हम उन्हें नहीं स्वीकारते। क्यों?
Quote 43 : भारत में हम बस मौत, बीमारी , आतंकवाद और अपराध के बारे में पढ़ते हैं।
Quote 44 : इसका मतलब है, जो लोग उच्च और जिम्मेदार पदों पर है, अगर वे धर्म के खिलाफ जाते है, तो धर्म ही एक विध्वंसक के रूप में तब्दील हो जाएगा।
Quote 45 : हम एक राष्ट्र के रूप में विदेशी चीज़ों से लगाव क्यों कर रहे है ? क्या यह हमारे औपनिवेशिक युग की एक विरासत है। हम विदेशी टीवी सेट खरीदना चाहते है। हम विदेशी शर्ट पहनना चाहते है। हम विदेशी प्रौधोगिकी खरीदना चाहते है, सब कुछ आयात करने का यह कैसा जुनून है ?
Quote 46 : दुनिया की आबादी के लगभग आधे लोग ग्रामीण क्षेत्रों में और ज्यादातर गरीबी की हालत में रहते है। मानव विकास में इस तरह की असमानता ही दुनिया में अशांति और हिंसा के प्राथमिक कारणों में से एक है।
Quote 47 : किसी भी धर्म में किसी धर्म को बनाए रखने और बढाने के लिए दूसरों को मारना नहीं बताया गया।
Quote 48 : जब तक भारत दुनिया में अपने कदमो पर खड़ा नहीं है, तब तक हमे कोई आदर नहीं करेगा। इस दुनिया में डर के लिए कोई जगह नहीं है। केवल ताकत ही ताकत का सम्मान करती है।
Quote 49 : भारत को अपनी ही छाया चाहिए, और हमारे पास स्वयं के विकास का प्रतिरूप होना चाहिए।
Quote 50 : हमे करोडो लोगो के देश की तरह सोचना और कार्य करना चाहिए न की लाखो लोगो के देश की तरह। सपना, सपना, सपना !
Quote 51 : हमे युवाओ को नौकरी चाहने वालो की अपेक्षा नौकरी देने वाला बनाना होगा।
Quote 52 : हर राष्ट, चीन से यह सीख सकता है की हमे ग्रामीण स्टार पर अच्छे उद्यमों, अच्छी गुणवत्ता की स्वास्थ्य सेवाओ और शैक्षिक सुविधाओ के निर्माण पर अधिक ध्यान केंद्रित करना चाहिए।
Quote 53 : मेरा नज़रिया यह है की जवानी में हम अधिक आशावादी और कल्पनाशील होते है और हम दूसरों से कम प्रभावित होते है।
Quote 54 : कितने सही रूप से क़ानून अपराध को खत्म कर सकता है ? बहुत तेजी से कारवाई करने के लिए एक तंत्र होना चाहिए। नियम कुछ ऐसे हो की उन्हें पकड़ो और सजा दो।
Quote 55 : भारत को एक मूल्य प्रधान राष्ट्र के साथ, एक विकसित राष्ट्र, एक समृद्ध राष्ट्र और एक स्वस्थ राष्ट्र के रूप में तब्दील होना होगा।
Quote 56 : हम केवल तभी याद किये जाएंगे यदि हम हमारी युवा पीढ़ी को एक समृद्ध और सुरक्षित भारत दे सके जो की सांस्कृतिक विरासत के साथ साथ आर्थिक समृद्धि के परिणाम स्वरुप प्राप्त हो।
Quote 57 : हमने किसी भी देश पर कभी आक्रमण नहीं किया है। हमने उनके देश की जमीन नहीं हड़पी है, अपनी संस्कृति, अपने इतिहास और अपने जीवन जीने के तरीके को उन पर लागू करने की कोशिश नहीं की।
Quote 58 : जब कोई राष्ट्र हथियार युक्त देशो से घिरा हो, तो उसे भी हथियार युक्त होना पडेगा।
Quote 59 : शिक्षाविद को छात्रों में रचनात्मकता, जानने की भावना और नैतिक नेतृत्व की क्षमता का निर्माण कर उनका आदर्श बन जाना चाहिए।
Quote 60 : क्या हम यह नहीं जानते कि आत्म सम्मान आत्म निर्भरता के साथ आता है ?
Quote 61 : अगर किसी देश को भ्रष्टाचार – मुक्त और सुन्दर-मन वाले लोगों का देश बनाना है तो , मेरा दृढ़तापूर्वक मानना है कि समाज के तीन प्रमुख सदस्य ये कर सकते हैं. पिता, माता और गुरु।
Quote 62 : भगवान, हमारे निर्माता ने हमारे मष्तिष्क और व्यक्तित्व में असीमित शक्तियां और क्षमताएं दी हैं। ईश्वर की प्रार्थना हमें इन शक्तियों को विकसित करने में मदद करती है।
Quote 63 : युद्ध किसी भी समस्या का स्थाई हल नहीं है।
Quote 64 : आकाश की तरफ देखिये. हम अकेले नहीं हैं. सारा ब्रह्माण्ड हमारे लिए अनुकूल है और जो सपने देखते हैं और मेहनत करते हैं उन्हें प्रतिफल देने की साजिश करता है।
Dr. A P J Abdul Kalam does it again… what he always does best ! Read out his below speech... .hats off to this man..we want men like him to be our CM, PM & President!!..but more importantly, citizens like him.
Dr. Abdul Kalam's #Letter to Every Indian
Why is the media here so negative?
Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements?
We are such a Great NATION.
We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them. Why?
We are the first in milk production.
We are number one in Remote sensing satellites.
We are the second largest producer of wheat.
We are the second largest producer of rice.
Look at Dr. Sudarshan , he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit..
There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters.
I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.
In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime.
Why are we so NEGATIVE?
Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things?
We want foreign T.Vs,
We want foreign shirts.
We want foreign technology. Why this obsession with everything imported.
Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance?
I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is..
She replied: I want to live in a developed India.
For her, you and I will have to build this developed India.
You must proclaim.
India is not an under-developed nation;
it is a highly developed nation...
YOU say that our government is inefficient.
YOU say that our laws are too old.
YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage.
Y OU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke. The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination.
YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits.
YOU say, say and say..
What do YOU do about it?
Take a person on his way to Singapore.
Give him a name - 'YOURS'. Give him a face - 'YOURS'. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best.
In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores.
YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are.. You pay $5 (approx. Rs.. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM.
YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity…
In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU?
YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai ..
YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah.
YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds (Rs..650) a month to, 'see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else.
YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, 'Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost.'
YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand ..
Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo?
Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston ???
We are still talking of the same YOU.
YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own.
YOU who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground.
If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country,
Why cannot you be the same here in India ?
In America every dog owne r has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan ..
Will the Indian citizen do that here?
We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility.
We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative.
We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin.
We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms.
We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity.This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public.
When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child! and others what do we do?
We make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home.
OUR EXCUSE?
'It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry.'
So who's going to change the system?
What does a system consist of?
Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government.
But definitely not ME & YOU.
When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr.CLEAN to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England. When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government.
Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country.
Nobody thinks of feeding the system.
Our conscience is mortgaged to money.
Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a great deal of introspection and pricks one's conscience too…..
I am echoing J. F. Kennedy's words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians…..'
ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY'
Lets do what India needs from us.
Thank you …
Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
U will always be their in our hearts. 🙏🙏
Korean Artist Beautifully Illustrates What Real Love Looks Like
We’re all so used to the grandiose tales of love in the movies — running through a crowded airport, sending love letters every single day for ten years, leaving one’s entire life behind — that anything less than trial by combat just seems lazy.
But Korean artist “Puuung” is intent on changing that narrative. “Love is something that everybody can relate to. And Love comes in ways that we can easily overlook in our daily lives. So, I try to find the meaning of love in our daily lives and make it into artwork,” she writes.
With her beautifully-drawn illustrations, Puuung reminds us that when it comes to love, it’s the little things that matter.
Puuung’s works can be found on her grafolio. Here Are some of her works:
