Tere andar chamakti dikhungi...

Mere dil ki gehrai mei naa jaa....
Waha tuje sirf ek jalti raakh dikhegi...
Jo ab bhi kisi ke intezaar mei, bina jhapke jalti dikhegi....

Bahut tukade bikhare hai waha....
Unn tukodo mei kisi ki yaad chamakti dikhegi....

Uss raakh mei ek roshni jaalti dikhegi....
Uss roshni mei kisi ki bewafai dikhegi...
Ya fir, kisi kaa haath "ab" bhi thaame meri ruh dikhegi....
Jo sukoon se jagamagati dikhegi...
Aur hasi se khilkhilati dikhegi..

Naaz karti mei, tuje dikhungi...
Ithlaati.. Sharmati.. Nakhre karte dikhungi....
Jisne zinda kiya muje....
Ussi say mei khafa khafa dikhungi....
Fir bhi ussi kaa intazaar karte...
Raah uski takhate dikhungi....

Sab se chup ke jo baitha hai andar mere....
Usse ladti... Jhagadti.. Baatein karti dikhungi....
Uske andar aks ko apne dhundhate dikhungi....
Jo kabhi mujse dur gaya nahi..
Ussi ki yaad mei aasu bahate dikhungi...

Apni narazgi ko, uske saamne kehte dikhungi...
Laakho sawal apne, hoto pe rakhe dikhungi....
Jo kabhi kaha nahi, woh sab kehte dikhungi....
Uski nigaho mein mei, jawab apne dhundhate dikhungi...

Bas dekh dekh ke usse...
Khush mei hoti dikhungi....
Sab shikyato ko rakh paare, firse me uske saath jeeti dikhungi...
Kuch nai nai si mei, kuch alag alag dikhungi....

Aa ab firse...
Muzme jhaak ke dekh....
Mei tuje ab bhi wahi khadi dikhugi...
Kuch alag alag si...
Ab kuch aur nayi si dikhungi....

Pass jab bhi wo aayega...
Firse mei apni hi lagugi...
Haan kuch alag jarur dikhungi...
Dard se bhilakhti...
Fir bhi khushi se muskurati dikhungi....
Haari si nai, par, har muskil se jeet ti dikhungi...

Aa ab firse...
Muzme jhaak ke dekh...
Abh bhi wahi...
Par...
Tere andar chamakti dikhungi...

- by me ;)

Love urself... Than their will be no need for "THAT sm1 special"

Indian women's are most stressed.... Article of Chetan Bhagat for Indian women

��Chetan Bhagat responded to a report by Neilsen that stated that Indian women were the most stressed. His letter is heart warming and you must read that..

A study by Nielsen recently revealed that Indian women were the most stressed in the world. It stated that an overwhelming 87 percent of Indian women felt stressed most of the time, and 82 percent reported that they had no time to relax.

So when this news came out, popular author Chetan Bhagat penned a heart-warming piece for a local daily for all Indian women. It is one that you must read if you are also struggling to juggle between multiple roles at home and work.

This is what he wrote:

“Alright, this is not cool at all. A recent survey by Nielsen has revealed that Indian women are the most stressed out in the world: 87% of our women feel stressed out most of the time. This statistic alone has caused me to stress out. Even in workaholic America, only 53% women feel stressed.

What are we doing to our women? I’m biased, but Indian women are the most beautiful in the world. As mothers, sisters, daughters, colleagues, wives and girlfriends – we love them. Can you imagine life without the ladies?

For now, I want to give Indian women five suggestions to reduce their stress levels.

One, don’t ever think you are without power. If your mother in law doesn’t like you. Leave her views for her. Be who you are, not someone she wished you would be. She doesn’t like you? That’s her problem.

Two, if you are doing a good job at work and your boss doesn’t value you -tell him that, or quit. Talented, hard-working people are much in demand.

Three, educate yourself, learn skills, network – figure out ways to be economically independent. So next time your husband tells you that you are not a good enough wife, mother or daughter-in-law, you can tell him to take a hike.

Four, do not ever feel stressed about having a dual responsibility of family and work. It is difficult, but not impossible. The trick is not to expect an A+ in every aspect of your life. You are not taking an exam, and you frankly can’t score cent per cent (unless you are in SRCC, of course). It is okay if you don’t  do four dishes for lunch, one can fill their stomach with one. It is okay if you don’t work until midnight and don’t get a promotion.

Nobody remembers their job designation on their dying day.

Five, most important, don’t get competitive with other women. Someone will make a better scrapbook for her school project than you. Another will lose more weight with a better diet.

Your neighbor may make a six-dabba tiffin for her husband, you don’t – big deal.

Do your best, but don’t keep looking out for the report card, and definitely don’t expect to top the class. There is no ideal woman in this world, and if you strive to become one, there will be only one thing you will achieve for certain – stress.

So breathe, chill, relax. Tell yourself you are beautiful, do your best and deserve a peaceful life.

Anybody trying to take that away from you is making a mistake, not you. Your purpose of coming to this earth is not to please everyone. Your purpose is to offer what you have to the world, and have a good life in return. The next time this survey comes, i don’t want to see Indian women on top of the list. I want them to be the happiest women in the world.

Cherish Womanhood!!

Meaning of marriage and Love

Meaning of Marriage and Love

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... This is marriage.

( this article is taken from awesomequotes4u.com )