Its a common saying that, when you want to become something look people who has succeeded in that stream so that they can inspire you...
and when you're sad or going through some problems look the person whose situation is more worse...
What you think is the both statement is right??
Isn't it biased???
Why cant we just see ourselves in every matter. Whether it is our aim or the struggle, or the problems we are facing.
Why we always wants to look others ?
If this is the way, than compare each and every thing, why only the situations? Compare that person by the way he's being brought up from childhood. Compare the atmosphere, the schooling, the friends, the situations every damn thing.
Why people just wants to compare the particular situation.
On the other hand we have read one more statement that,
For knowing the situation of the person you have to walk in his shoes.
Than why people can't see the situation the person going through? Why they come and console in a way that look them, your situation is far more better. Why the hell, this comparison?
And to the extreme when someone got succeed, you are lucky. Because so many have talents but didn't have the luck.
I feel every person has his own problems and the way of dealing with them. And every person has their own story of success and struggle. Its good to get inspired by someone. But never compare it by yours. Their situation may be good or worst compared to you. But that was their not yours. And it goes vice versa.
JUST DO YOUR BEST and dont regret later, because you did your best
- by me
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